Friday, August 20, 2010

Why do I feel like I'm the only woman with a zero-tolerance policy towards aszhole, sexist men?

Some of the things guys say really put me off and make me really upset, although some call it ';flirting.';





I call it disrespecting women and cheating on your girlfriend...this is happened many times to me. I dress classy, I am friendly, etc...yet, some men say borderline to over the top sexually harassing comments, generally with a significant other.





Many women tend to laugh it off or even flirt back...I even overheard one laugh it off, yet complain later on to a friend about what one male said to her and how he approached her! That particular male was engaged!





Why do I feel like the only one who feels this way? I'm 25.Why do I feel like I'm the only woman with a zero-tolerance policy towards aszhole, sexist men?
I too have always had a zero-tolerance policy when it comes to AH men.





Let me start by saying that I am 36 yrs. old and have never tolerated blatant disrespect or allowed any man to treat me like his toy. In high school and in college, I was the same way. I have never put up with that!





I had and still do have, a lot of male friends who have never crossed the line with me as a result of being a strong woman who would not tolerate their garbage. Which is probably the reason why we are still friends twenty four plus years later.





Although, I have heard some of my male friends say and do things to other women that I found offensive or crude, these women casually accepted their behavior giving men the impression it was somehow acceptable. By flirting back, and engaging them, it opened the flood gates for guys to be as crude as they wanted because simply put.... they condoned it!





Any self-respecting women would never allow herself to be treated in this fashion.





Perhaps some young ladies believe that this is a guys way of flirting with them, and hence accept the level of grab a$$ games that guys play.





There are young women that would rather have any attention from guys, than none at all. They don't realize yet that they would have better relationships with men, if men actually respected them.





A mature woman who understands the value in herself does not need negative attention in any regard from any man.





They will realize as they get older and experience sexual harassment in their workplace, that it is not so funny and cute anymore. Maybe then and only then will it dawn on them that they are being treated like a sex object and being objectified by the opposite sex.





I have been married since I was your age, but even way back when grab a$$ was not considered flirting by my standards, nor was discussing a woman's breast size with her.





I don't envy anybody who is dating that's for sure!Why do I feel like I'm the only woman with a zero-tolerance policy towards aszhole, sexist men?
Your negative attitude towards men's flirting/sexual interest is thankfully not as common as it once was.





Are you aware that dressing up and wearing makeup and putting up your hair will actually encourage this behaviour?





Consider it a compliment.





If you are upset because you think the guy is ';cheating'; on somebody with their borderline racy comments just tell them that and that you are not interested and that they should consider themselves fortunate if you do not tell on them.
I have a zero tolerance policy too and by zero I actually mean zero, I don't get pissed, in fact, I don't even care. That's how zero my zero tolerance policy is.





It's very easy to shrug off men, the old, the young and the perverted. It's nothing personal. Just thank god that he's not your boyfriend and move on.
Trust me when I say you鈥檙e not the only one. I personally chose not to even waste my time with such people. I鈥檓 30, and I鈥檝e learned through out my years of living that men who speak to women in this manner or conduct themselves in this manner have very little respect for their wives, and themselves. And it鈥檚 always cool for them to do act that way towards someone else鈥檚 loved one, as long as no other man does the same thing to their mothers, daughters, female cousins, nieces, and aunts.
Different people react differently to stimuli. May be you've had bad experiences in the past and aren't convinced about therapy yet. Or you were brought up in a family where 'if the mother is angry, nobody gets away' mentality rules supreme. Or it could be plain good old victim mentality. It depends.
Why worry about it? If a dueschbag approaches you just set him straight and move on. There's no good to letting it get you upset.





As to why you feel you are the only woman who feels this way, I don't know.
So lets clarify. When you do it its classy and friendly but when a guy does it disrespectful, cheating and being a sexist asshole....
what do they say? give an example of whats over the top. whgy this is depends upon what you consider to be harassing comments.
Whatever works for you, dollface.
Do the world a favor and clone yourself, or teach classes to the younger generation... maybe there is still hope.
WE do it cuz Earth Girls are Easy!
I feel that way too. I think that men are clueless when it comes to what women want. I also believe that it has a lot to do with the women that some men deal with. Some men are use to dealing with women who don't have class or respect themselves and they assume that all women are like that.





I have an attitude with some men because of the fact that they don't know how to approach you without making it obvious that their hormones are raging. Ugh! I hate that, but since so many women live for those kind of comments from men, when they meet someone like you and I and we don't give them the response that they are use to, they think we are stuck up, when the truth of the matter is we just respect ourselves.

Am I a flirt like my girlfriend said so?

If a girl (stranger) raised a glass at you (Cheers!) and smiled would you raise and smiled back? Well, I did and I got told off by my girlfriend.


Also, if suddenly a girl (stranger again!) came and asked you your name would you tell her? I did, and guess what, yaah, got into an argument with my girlfriend just for that! Then afterwards my girlfriend caught me when that girl put her arms around my neck and I was off guard so my girlfriend was really angry at me for letting her did that. But it was really fast, I swear. The most important thing is I wasn't talking to anybody or deliberately made eye contact to any of the girls.


Please don't tell me i'm a flirt :( How to deal with my girlfriend whenever I'm stuck in this kinda situations. Please advise!!Am I a flirt like my girlfriend said so?
Your girlfriend is obviously feeling insecure. You need to calmly explain the situation. Do men flirt with her? Does she respond? make a comparision and reassure her alot that she's the only one for you.Look-don't touch! After all, you are humanAm I a flirt like my girlfriend said so?
ur g/f is a psycho
It was inconsiderate of you to even acknowledge another female while your g/f is there...I'm NOT saying you should ignore women you or your g/f knows...I'm saying that these women are ';hitting'; on you and your walking right into it by giving them the least amount of attention you are in fact saying...';maybe later we can get to know each other'; by ignoring these women you are saying..';I'm not interested';!! Sorry, I think your totally wrong in this..as to how to deal with your g/f when things like this happen...that's easy...don't let it happen...

Does my friend like me back? ?

All my friends say he likes me, or he's doing an act so he gets me back (we went out before) and its been two years since we've went out I like him though i don't know if he likes me back, but we're best friends and we talk all the time and we tell each other everything. He's always acting protective like when his friends tease him on how I have a cute butt, or how that they are going to flirt with me he's like: touch her and your dead, and stuff. And he every once in a while he asks me if i like him. And also he's like: do you think we'll ever go out with each other in the futur and I'm like: i really don't know and he's like: well obviously no I know you would never like me that way. and then he made a deal with me that if he learns how to dance tango he will take me to prom and I said deal. And we can get into really serious conversation, like this one time I asked him if I ever asked him to have sex with me what would he say and he's like: Well if you're joking about it, I'll say dont joke about that but if you mean it seriously i would probably say yes. as long as its legal and that you're really serious about it, and don,t you think that would be messed up? and I'm like: i dont know it depends how we are with each other he's like: well i guess and im like: like i wouldn't really want to have a benefitial friend like if i were to have sex with you or anything i think i would want to be your girlfriend before that, and then after he's like: So you want to go out? Joking. (he said the joking part just by the way so you dont get mixed up)





So does he like me?Does my friend like me back? ?
yeah, it really sounds like he does!

I'm straight, but i like my girl lesbian best friend, help!?

okay, i'm straight, and i always have been. honestly, i would say that this one girl is hot or something like that, but i've never said that to someone, and i've never actually liked a girl, until now. my best friend, is the girl i like. i don't necessarily want to, and i didn't try to like her, it truly just happened. so, she's a BIG flirt. that's just the way she is, with almost everyone. but with me, it's kind of. . . different. well, that's how i see it anyway. one person said that if they didn't know us, they swear they could've passed us off as a couple. that person also said that we flirt, A LOT. now, whenever we're together and the subject of us flirting is brought up, we both deny it. but for some reason, it seems like she hesitates with it. almost like she really concentrates on what she's gonna say before she says it. and she never does that unless in a serious conversation. although i always deny that we flirt, i believe we do. we always hold hands. she's always hugging me. always rubbing her hand up and down my leg or thigh, or arm, whatever. basically, she's always touching me. whenever i say **** you jokingly she'll say okay, and yeah everyone jokes around about that but then i'll be like you know you want to, she'll just go off saying ';dude if you were bi i'd soooooo **** you'; etc. i can never tell if she's joking or being serious though! but one of the biggest problems with this, is that she has a girlfriend. who is going through A LOT of stuff right now, like in the subject of rape and other things. so that's really holding me back. i don't want her to have more stress on her when she has to deal with this stuff involving her girlfriend. i think that if she wasn't going through this, it'd be easier for me to tell her.


but, today we were hanging out. me, her, and her girlfriend. her girlfriend was with us because she lives with her now, so in a way, she really has no choice. so my best friend and i were joking around, as usual, and she was extremely close to my face, attempting to kiss me. and i guess i wouldn't have minded if she didn't have a girlfriend or whatever, even though i've never kissed a girl, but yeah. so i said to her ';you're really trying to do this right in front of your girlfriend?'; and her response was ';it's okay, you're straight.'; we didn't kiss, of course. i wasn't allowing that. but what really confuses me, is that, if she knows or believes i'm straight, then why does she keep trying? i don't understand. she's always telling me i'm beautiful, and stuff. we're always flirting, and i really can't tell if she likes me, because when like, her girlfriend comes back into the picture, it's just like her and i are friends, even though she'll flirt with me right in front of her girlfriend.


what i'm basically asking here is, do you guys think she likes me? should i tell her i like her, even if you don't think she has feelings for me?





i know for a fact that she won't stop being my friend if i tell her i like her.


but i'm afraid that, if i do tell her i do, and she doesn't feel the same way, or she doesn't want to leave her girlfriend, that the way we act around each other will change. i don't want the way we joke around and stuff like that to end, it won't be like she's my best friend anymore. so that's another reason why i'm confused.





i'm verrrry confused, so please tell me what you think and what you think i should do!I'm straight, but i like my girl lesbian best friend, help!?
I didn't read all of this, either, as there was no need for you to write as much as you did (other than it sounds like you're trying hard to convince yourself and others that she likes you the same way you like her).





Questions like these always seem like some huge joke to me. It's clear she likes you. Your being ';straight'; in her mind doesn't mean anything, and she basically told you why she flirts with you all the time, even right in front of her girlfriend. She's not necessarily trying to get with you. She thinks she has no chance with you, so that makes her feel more secure in being a bit open about her crush on you and it's just mainly in fun for her. It's not the same thing as being into someone, wanting to ask them out and worrying about being rejected. Her thought process is something like, ';Man, if that girl was bi or les, I would go after her seriously. But she's not, so I'll just have some fun flirting and imaging something's between us.';





You're right, though, to leave this alone. Having a girlfriend is bad enough and reason enough for you to back off, but the girl having the kind of problems she does...she doesn't need to worry about her girlfriend dumping her in the middle of all this crap for you. At least keep quiet until either they break up or the girl doesn't need your crush as much as she does.I'm straight, but i like my girl lesbian best friend, help!?
Just stay friends %26amp; be happy.
i didnt even read all dis **** but i gotta feeling your bi if you like another girl
u aint straight
sounds to me like she likes you and you really like her and you guys would be the perfect couple lol


i think you should tell her exactly how you feel and let her know that if she doesnt feel the same way about you that you dont want your relationship to change and you still consider her your best friend and you dont want things to be akward and when you guys are together and it does get quiet or akward start talkin so it seems like you dont think its akward and shell feel less akward, if that were to ever happen.


i think you should tell her how you feel about her and see what happens, :]


i realy hope i helped you


and i wish you all the luck in the world.


good luck!
shes totally into you. But i think the fact that she is gay kinda gets you and a lot of people say that about me i give off strong vibes and some girls cant handle it lol. I think you should ask her what shes feeling and say if shes your bestfriend she should tell you whats on her mind. I also think she feels the same way that her g/f is going through a lot and doesnt wanna mess with her heart right now. but by what you just told me she deff wants you or has feelings for you. go with your gut instinct on this one i am 98% positive she feels for you.
'cause deep down i think she likes you, and is trying to see how far she can get with you, so she's teasing you. and sorry to burst your bubble but if you like her you aren't completely straight

This girl is driving me crazy but i cant get her out of my head?

first of all i am a VERY shy kid when it comes to actual relationships. i talk to a lot of girls (im not like a pimp, i just have a good amount of girl friends)but i never get too involved because i never like them enough, but this girl is different. ive liked her since i first started talking to her and ive always thought we would make a good couple, and so did both my friends and her friends. people would always tease me when it was just us like ';how's your girlfriend?'; etc. i never really minded it because i thought she liked me back. she would hug me constantly, tell me she loves me, grab my arm in the hallway and walk with me, laugh at my dumb jokes, smile when she saw me, and all that other normal flirting stuff. i wanted to ask her out really bad, but some huge family problems came up within the first week of her breaking up with her boyfriend (this first week is also when all of the super heavy flirting started) and i didnt want to ask her out because i knew i would dump all my personal life crap on her and i didnt want to put her through something like that, so i waited. its been almost 3 weeks now and im starting to feel better and like it will be ok to ask her out. but i recently went to a concert with her and some of our friends (my best friend was one of them). i didnt get to sit next to her on the ride there or back, but he did. i was really nervous because he is known to steal girlfriends sometimes and be a HUGE flirt. and after it was all said and done i was even worse than before. i couldnt eat, sleep, think straight, do anything. she really messed me up worse than anyone ever has. now im finding out from both of them they were flirting and admit it. she told me he was grabbing her hand in the car when everone was asleep, but when people woke up he let go, something he hasnt told me, so he doesnt know that i know. he has told me though that he might like her, but he wants to put me first. i think she likes him now though and i am so lost as to what to do.This girl is driving me crazy but i cant get her out of my head?
Dude you need to man up and step up to the plate if you don't you will regret it. Dont be affraid of rejection because it sounds like shes one of ur close friends and everything will be okay and besides their are always other girls out their.


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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>This girl is driving me crazy but i cant get her out of my head?
I think you should tell her how you feel, but dont pressure her. Also, let her know about how your friend is a big flirt - if she ends up with him, he might break her heart and thats not good





Just be yourself and try to tell her (not with friends around) that you like her. Tell her that you're here for her, and let her make the decision.
alright first off **** that guy!!! second just talk to her. tell her you really like her and see what she says. it could be bad and it could be good it all depends on how she really feels.
ask her out first and tel how you feel about her nd kinda put the idea in her head that your better 4 her than he is and give a few days to choose
You have to let happen whatever is meant to happen. The only way she'll figure out what she truly wants is to try the things she wants to try. If she dates him but realizes it's you she likes, it will be fine. If it's him who she wants to date and not you, then let them be.





Just don't worry and stop letting it eat you up inside. Communicate with her first. Tell her how you feel. If she goes for him, let her go!!!





You will be fine I promise!!
this girl seems to be loving the attention, BUT however,if its meant to be it will happen,when the times right.Dont beat yourself up over it, just sit back and wait.As for your `friend` it doesnt sound like much of a friendly thing to do,when your mates playing it cool to get with this girl, if he steers clear now thats fair enough,and the reason he never told you is because he knew its unfair what he was doing,knowing you like her.


Hope all works out for you and her soon.

Girls Only! I need to know what yall do?

I'm not worried about anything, i was just wondering a basic fact.





If you had a boyfriend that you wanted to marry, yall have been dating for a year and a half. When you go out with your girlfriends and a hot guy comes up with you flirt with him a little or just tell him your not interested.





Please tell me if you do this, or you would do this.





Please tell the truth im not judging anybody on here!





I just wanted to know how yall feel around other men when you already have a boyfriend.Girls Only! I need to know what yall do?
ofcourse i would flirt with him but nothing more serious than that


no dates or anything like that cuz i already have a bf. I would just flirt for fun!!Girls Only! I need to know what yall do?
There;s nothing wrong with checking out the merchandise. Besides it's flattering to know that someone still thinks you hot and has enough courage to come and approach you.
I know not all women are like me, but when I have a boyfriend I am in love with, I feel very uncomfortable if another guy approaches me, no matter what he looks like. I always thank them for their interest but let them know I am very happy in my current relationship.
Well you see there is not just one answer to this question because we are all different.





Given your scenario though, if I had been going out that long I would be pretty committed and I may not notice that the other is flirting (with me I mean) I might take it that he is interested in getting to know one of the girls at the table. If he is very obviously eyeing me then yes I would let him know that he is wasting his time as I have this wonderful hunk already, and especially if he was egotistical then I would take great pride in bursting his balloon...No one likes a man who thinks he's God's gift to women.





We feel grateful sometimes, when we meet other girls' boyfriends, that he is not ours. ha ha.





But remember it is ok to look just don't touch, it is ok to say that so and so is a handsome man, does not mean we care less for our man though.





Bye for now
I know that I personally wouldn't flirt.There are a lot of eyes out there and wouldn't want to jeapordize what I have.
Well I'm the committed type. So i would tell the guy I'm not interested. and i have someone very special with me right now.
i'll admit i would flirt a little...then if he asked me for my number or something like that i would tell him i'm not interested, and if he asked why i'd explain i had been going out with someone.
There is a difference between flirting %26amp; just being friendley,the line is very narrow so you have to decied if she is flirting or just being friendley. But if it hurts the feelings of the boyfriend %26amp; he told me it upset him or made him feel anxious then I would stop. His feelings would be more important than my flirting for my own ego. But make sure it is flirting because just being friendley might be just what you were attracted to in the first place.
honestly if i am really in love i just tell the dude...take two steps to the left...one to the right and hop off my nuts...please and thank u
i will just tell him im not interested cos i already have some one i love.
Having a boyfriend and being in a committed relationship means just that! I would let the other guys know I am NOT interested! A true woman respects the FACT that she is in a committed relationship and her behavior will show it! Not to worry you but many woman do not do this, so talk to your girlfriend and make sure you two have the correct understanding about being in a committed relationship. Do NOT accuse her of anything it will only cause an argument! Let her know how much you LOVE and CHERISH her she will be thrilled! Best Wishes and God Bless!
An innocent flirt is natural as long as you intend nothing more to progress. ITs always nice to pass them on anyway. So hope all goes well with you boyfriend and marriage.
i've always been faithful and i wouldn't flirt with another bloke while i was out with mates cos i wouldn't like my boyfriend to do it to me.
id probably do a very small, reserved amount of flirting, in a friendly sort of way, almost out of politeness, but nothing that would make him think im interested. id mention the fact i have a boyfriend in passing conversation to make it clear he didnt have a chance with me.





in those sorts of situations(in clubs, on girls night out), all talking is a little bit flirty, but it doesnt really mean anything, ecause everyone is like that so they dont assume you want more. but if you were flirting at the bus stop or at work, it means more. do you know what i mean? oh i cant explain!





hope that helps!
well there is nothing wrong with flirting if thats all it is -- and its not the kind that your trying to take someone home. Guys flirt with other women I don't see why women can't be flirty with other guys.
It honestly depends on the self esteem of the woman. I grew up with very low self esteem, so when men flirt with me (even though I have a b/f), I do flirt a little back, but it's only because I'm flattered. I have no intention of being with them at ALL!
ive been with my man for 3 yrs now and i love him so much!! so if this would happen to me(whish it has) , i mean even if i thought he was s o fine, i would say i wasnt intrested. i love and respect my boyfriend and i would never do that becuz i wouldnt want him doing that to me.
I flirt all the time... my boyfriend knows that I flirt, and now that I waitress at a strip club, flirting is a part of my job... but I make it clear to the guys, at some point, that I have a boyfriend and am happy in my relationship. It's fun to flirt, makes us, as women, feel good sometimes, but is harmless. It's not harmless if a girl takes it beyond flirting, but simply flirting is no big deal.
I actually just had this talk with my boyfriend. We're together 2 1/2 years, talking about marriage and all. I felt bad that I was still attracted to other people, he told me that what's important is that I stay true to him. A little harmless flirting is ok, as long as it goes no further. I still get attracted to other men, but if I think they'd be too tempting, I keep away from them.
If your in Love and you are talking marriage...You should not want to flirt with other men. Sorry sista...you sound to young to be getting married. You should NEVER think about another man if you want to get married. Your man should be the only man you flirt with.


I am a college senior and My boyfriend is my bestfriend. He is the only man in my life and the only man I think about. Marriage should NEVER EVER be taken lightly. It is a lifelong commitment.
me and my hubby (soon to be when im old enuff) go threw this alot cuase he says im way to friendly cause we both work together and when some new ppl work i just start to talk to them so that they anit shy cause i want them to feel comfortable plus if its a guy i like only have guy friends so i can like talk to them easyier you know what i mean like 10 girls who are my friends


he used to acuse me of flirtying but not no more





but to answer ur question


i just talk to them like if they was to b like hi id say hi who the hel are u but if ur yellin out a car window i cut up like buddy no chance in hell


or if im at the mall i get like u didnt give me this ring so dont be all on me





i can be mean,nice, or funny
Sweetie, just because you're on a diet, doesn't mean you can't look at the menu. If a guy flirts with me, I'm always nice to him (even if I'm in a committed relationship), I don't give out my number or get physical, but a little eye batting doesn't hurt. Now I would say, I wouldn't do it in front of my S.O. And wouldn't want them doing it front of me. But that's just me.





Brandas
if i were with friends that were single i would give him a chance because maybe he was really interested in getting info on one of my friends but if it was obvious he was only coming to talk to me i would tell him thanks but i'm taken!
i would probably talk to the person if they talked to me first....but that would be as far as it would go...no dancing, no exchanging numbers etc...
I wouldn't. Why? Because I would be upset if my husband flirted with an attractive woman other than ME. It's not necessary or appropriate and I expect him to disengage from that type of interaction as I would.
I'd tell him I'm not interested.

Steal or Leave/Cheat or Ignore?

Girls, if you like your best friend's boyfriend, would you flirt with him? And would you try to get her boyfriend's attention everytime you see him staring at her?





Guys, if your girlfriend's friend likes you but you have absolutely no feelings for her, how would you act towards her?Steal or Leave/Cheat or Ignore?
No, that would make me a terrible best friend and I wouldn't deserve her friendship. I would deserve a good slap across the face though.Steal or Leave/Cheat or Ignore?
Oh wow. She must not be a very good friend.

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no she my freind how could go and do that man thats just wrong man..theres a bunch of other guys out there why lose a friend

Straight guys?

Do you know them straight guys that hates gay/bisexual guys but yet has a bisexual girlfriend or like talking flirting and talking with lesbians? Because I know this one straight macho guy that always tells me how I'm going to hell and how a threat I am to manhood, but yet dates a girl thats bisexual. I even got upset and asked him ';what about your girlfriend, shes bisexual'; and he said its okay for a girl to be like that but not some funky guy! Oh boi my feelings was hurt! Oh and also I forgot another guy said the same exact words, but he was bisexual but seemed to like girls 95% and guys 5%!Straight guys?
I'm a ';hetero'; male, %26amp; I know the kind of macho guys of which you speak. They're the ones hoping for a three-some w/ their girlfriends' girlfriend, %26amp; they'll never know the real beauty of a monogamous relationship. You're no threat to anyone's manhood -- he's just not secure in his own! Since he lives by some sort of double-standard, he'll be in hell himself. I'm also a Christian, but out of respect, I'll keep my beliefs to myself regarding what my faith teaches about your lifestyle. I know those opinions won't be well received here. Don't let your own disposition be controlled by people like the man you mentioned. He appears to have an ';underwhelming'; IQ!Straight guys?
what are you to fel bad about. stupid must have rubbed off when he was a child from on of his parents. im sorry u were hurt. if it makes you feel any better everyone hated me at my school and on christmas that came to my house and wrote fag, homo, cock sucker, all over it. but the best part is went i invited the whole school over my house to watch them scrub it off!!. dont listen to anything they say its what you call stupidity!!!
Straight guys sometimes turned on by watching 2 women... and they are less threatened by lesbian women.


For some reason they think gay guys are a threat - and see us as easy targets.


Don't pay them any attention... they aren't true friends...
They are just immature because they ony respect everyone but gays.





Gays is also human too....


Or should say they are just scared that gays molest them....
it's called a double standard. the world is full of them. like men should open doors for women but they aren't expected to reciprocate.
Well as we all know most straight guys are turned on by seeing two women together and like to flirt or try to date them even though they can't have them, they hope to watch or be in the middle. They feel threatened by gay men or bi men cuz they normally can have the feeling of machonisity ';made up word..teehee'; around them but feel like the dominant thing is ripped away from them...like its weird for them to be checked out by men, the normal dominant partner.....what did i say???





who knows...but that 5% bi guy might say he hates gays so people would say ';no he's not, he hates them';








so there you go





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    15. taken a survey like this before?Have you ever............?
    1. cheated on your boyfriend/girlfriend?


    i guess, but i regret it.


    2. flirted with a girl if your a boy or a girl with if your a girl? (I know this seems like a strange question, but you'd be surprised on how many straight people said yes)


    LOL wow now why would i do that?


    3. read Twilight?


    yeah its alright, i guess. not that amazing though,


    4. put a mento in a coke (if you haven't, try it...it's worth it)


    noppee; im guna try it ! flavoured mento?


    5. shopped on Black Friday?


    Nope.


    6. flirted with someone at least 5 years older than you? 10 years?


    YEAH. LOL ♥


    7. sang along to Hannah Montana's Best of Both Worlds?


    ew no. :(


    8. been seen naked in public unintentionally? Intentionally?


    unintentionally? noo, intentionally? yeah.


    9. watched the movie Harry Potter?


    nopee.


    10. been spanked by someone your own age (I have...)


    noooo.


    11. walked around your house shirtless


    noo not with my brothers aroundd, eww.


    12. cried at a movie theater?


    noo


    13. had sex in a bathroom stall


    LMAO thats disgusting


    14. cussed viciously at or threaten your computer? (I have...I actually threw it out the window :)


    noo %26gt;%26lt;


    15. taken a survey like this before?


    not the exact same onee.





    ♥ =DHave you ever............?
    1. Nope!


    2. Huh? O_o


    3. No, I should...apparently it's amazing?


    4. No...I'm missin' out on life! D:


    5. What's that?


    6. No way


    7. Yes :| SHAMEFUL xD


    8. No, thankfully


    9. Yes


    10. Uhmm...no O_o


    11. Nope


    12. No...but at home, yes xD


    13. Eww...no


    14. No, I don't curse at all...I threaten inanimate objects though xD


    15. Yeah, but this one was teh bomb :D
    1. define cheat..


    2. yea :)


    3. does the fist page [and only the first page] count?


    4. not yet but i will one day :)


    5. yyea.. pretty funny


    6. no but i have with a guy 4 years older haha


    7. yea haha its fun :)


    8. HELL NO! oops caps..


    9. just the first one :)


    10. a million times.. lol


    11. haha yea.. but no one was home :O


    12. i try not to..


    13. not yet ;) lol


    14. hahha yea... thousands of times :)


    15. actually.... yes, yes i have :)
    1. Nope.


    2. What?


    3. Yeah.


    4. Yesss.


    5. Kind of. Nothing big though.


    6. Yes.[;


    7. Yep. Lol.


    8. Naaaww.


    9. Helll, that is the dumbest movie ever.


    10. Yeaaah. haha.


    11. All the time.


    12. No.


    13. No, not yet..


    14. Yes. Haha. I was getting irretated.


    15. Probably. Oh well.
    1. nope.


    2. no.


    3. yeah. (lame, i know.)


    4. of course. Who hasn't?


    5. yeah.


    6. 5, yes. 10, maybe.


    7. haha. surprisingly, yes.


    8. nope. and no.


    9. unfortunately, yes.


    10. haha. yeah.


    11. no. there's too many windows.


    12. yeah. :(


    13. no.


    14. yeah.


    15. yes.
    1. yes


    2. um...yes


    3. book 1


    4. yeah


    5. uhuh


    6. yes and yes :\


    7. haven't we all??


    8. no (thank god!) and no again


    9. every one!


    10. are we talking s%26amp;m??? no, im not into that....


    11. haha. yup.


    12. yeah


    13. once


    14. haha yeah. all the time.


    15. no
    yes to watching harry potter


    being spanked by someone my own age


    walked around my house shirtless


    i have cried in a movie theatre (and thats not all either hahaha)


    i have had sex in a bathroom stall


    cussed and threatened my computer ( i actually slapped it once)
    1/ no


    2/umm no i think


    3/yes


    4/no but i'll try


    5/yes


    6/uummm...


    7/haha yes all the time i hear it


    8/nope


    9/yes


    10/oh yes


    11/not really


    12/yes


    13/aww no it way to small


    14/not really


    15/yea all the time
    1] no not EVER


    2] huh??


    3] yeah and hated it


    4] no?


    5] hell no! last time a broke a leg!


    6] yeah


    7] when i was bored/ hyper


    8] no


    9] i watched all the movies


    10] yup.....


    11] yup [and pantless]


    12] no


    13] no


    14] yes like a million times


    15] yup
    1. no


    2. ?


    3. one book got bored never again its awful


    4. YES


    5. ya


    6. no


    7.yes


    8.no


    9.yes


    10. no


    11. well i had a bra on


    12. yes


    13.no


    14. ALL THE TIME


    15. sadly yes
    1. No


    2. No?


    3. YES!


    4. Yup


    5. Just did


    6. Ha yes


    7. Self-consciously


    8. No, no


    9. Yes


    10. Ha ha yes


    11. When no one was home


    12. Uh no dont think so


    13. No


    14. Yes, Yes i have


    15. Uh no dont think so. Good job ;)
    1. no


    2. what?


    3. only like 10 pages


    4. yes


    5. yes


    6. yea


    7. hell no..well actually when it first came out i did


    8. no


    9. yes


    10. no


    11. yes


    12. no


    13. no


    14. yes


    15. yes
    1. No cos i never had one yet


    2. no


    3. No, i don't like twilight


    4. no


    5. no


    6. no


    7. no


    8. no


    9.yes but it was sh*t


    10. no


    11. no


    12. no


    13. no


    14. yes lol


    15.yes
    1) no


    2) no


    3) no


    4) no


    5) no


    6) no


    7) no


    8) no


    9) yes


    10) no, the girls I've dated have been younger than me


    11) yes


    12) yes


    13) no


    14) yes


    15) no
    1. no


    2. no


    3. yes


    4. no


    5. yes


    6. no, no


    7. no


    8. no, no


    9. yes


    10. yes


    11. no


    12. yes


    13. no


    14. yes


    15. no
    1. no


    2. yes


    3. no


    4. no


    5. yes


    6. no


    7. yes


    8. no


    9. no


    10. yes


    11. yes


    12. no


    13. no


    14. yes


    15. yes
    nope


    nope


    yeah


    yeah


    indeed.


    nope.


    ...guilty


    nahhh.


    indeedy.


    no. i would be murderous if someone did that to me...


    yesh.


    hah. not that i can recall


    never had sex


    hah. i slap mine.


    hasn't everyone?
    no


    no


    yes


    yes


    no


    yeah


    nope


    duh


    yeah


    yeah


    almost


    never!


    nope


    no i like it!
    no


    no


    YES


    no


    no


    maybe


    yup


    no


    once


    ya


    ya


    yup


    nope


    yup


    yup
    Everyone has answered a survey like this.
    Do you really expect someone to read and answer every question on this whole ******* list? By the time I did that, Santa would be going down my chimney! BUTTFACE
    Actually.


    pretty sad.





    Yes to all of them.
    yes to ALL
    nope to all
    1. cheated on your boyfriend/girlfriend? nope





    2. flirted with a girl if your a boy or a girl with if your a girl? (I know this seems like a strange question, but you'd be surprised on how many straight people said yes) nope





    3. read Twilight? yes and hated every page of it





    4. put a mento in a coke (if you haven't, try it...it's worth it) no but i heard the coke explodes.....





    5. shopped on Black Friday? heck yea who hasnt?





    6. flirted with someone at least 5 years older than you? 10 years? no.....





    7. sang along to Hannah Montana's Best of Both Worlds? sadly yes





    8. been seen naked in public unintentionally? Intentionally? no was i suppose to be?





    9. watched the movie Harry Potter? yes and didnt like it





    10. been spanked by someone your own age (I have...) nope





    11. walked around your house shirtless no





    12. cried at a movie theater? yes many times





    13. had sex in a bathroom stall? no.........


    14. cussed viciously at or threaten your computer? (I have...I actually threw it out the window :) yes!!!! who hasnt done that?!





    15. taken a survey like this before? yes but yours has been the best :D
    1. cheated on your boyfriend/girlfriend? NO


    2. flirted with a girl if your a boy or a girl with if your a girl? (I know this seems like a strange question, but you'd be surprised on how many straight people said yes) NO


    3. read Twilight? NO


    4. put a mento in a coke (if you haven't, try it...it's worth it) NOPE


    5. shopped on Black Friday? NOPE


    6. flirted with someone at least 5 years older than you? 10 years? No, Slitghtly DIFF, 4 Years Younger


    7. sang along to Hannah Montana's Best of Both Worlds? NO


    8. been seen naked in public unintentionally? Intentionally? NO


    9. watched the movie Harry Potter? YES


    10. been spanked by someone your own age (I have...) YES, IN PUBLIC


    11. walked around your house shirtless NO


    12. cried at a movie theater? NO


    13. had sex in a bathroom stall? NO


    14. cussed viciously at or threaten your computer? (I have...I actually threw it out the window :) NO


    15. taken a survey like this before YES

    Why does he mention his ex-girlfriend?

    I've been talking to this guy lately and I really like him. No we're not dating yet but we flirt and he calls me pretty and we talk all the time. He asks me how my day was and always calls/texts me in the morning to know if i slept well and to say good morning and other sweet things like that, but he got out of a relationship like 2-3 months ago. They were together for a little over 2 years. She broke up with him, and he's mentioned her a couple times in the past week. Guys don't like when we bring up our ex boyfriends so what makes you think we like it when you talk about your ex girlfriends? Why does he still bring her up? Does he still have feelings for her? And if so I should probably back off a little because... I don't really want to be a rebound to be honest =/ Ive been there before it's not fun. Also, I see her a lot but she doesn't know he and I talk, i don't even think she knows that I know him... which also makes me a good target for the rebound since there's a small chance she might see us together and want him back. Maybe I'm just too untrustworthy toward guys but forget that, just answer my first question, why does he still mention her?Why does he mention his ex-girlfriend?
    Well i personally think two years is a long time. They probably did a lot together in that amount of time so it could be he just has storys and she is in them. If you are close to him and you know he is a nice guy then i wouldnt worry about any of that other stuff. hope i helped

    What would you do in this situation?

    You're 21 years old and your older brother is visiting town with his new girlfriend. Your parents are divorced, so you drop in at your mom's house where he's staying to meet his new girlfriend.





    When you arrive, despite asking your mom several times earlier that afternoon not to disrespect your brother by being drunk, you find that your mom is plastered. She can hardly hold her head up and is talking loudly, flirting with the neighbor's husband in front of the neighbor, cursing, and flicking off people.





    In embarrassment, you try to maintain conversation with the new girlfriend and act as normal as possible. You can read embarrassment all over your brother's face, who is doing his best to maintain eye contact with you and carry on a conversation despite your mother's (and her drunk friends') frequent lewd interruptions and attention-seeking behavior.





    You go inside to use the bathroom. Your brother has also been drinking, so when you come back outside, your mother is strewn completely horizontally across your brother's lap, as he laughs and gives her the equivalent of a birthday spanking. Keep in mind that it is not her birthday, or anyone else's.





    After seeing this birthday-style spanking from afar, what would you do? Sit down and continue talking to the girlfriend as if nothing happened? Make a comment? Leave?





    Also, how common is stuff like this and how much can it do to someone's mental health?What would you do in this situation?
    awwe.i honestly think that i would be so annoyed i'd leave.


    I'm sure its not the most productive thing to do, but at that point, its really one of the only options--at that moment in time. if you do comment or try to help, they arent really going to remember it if they are that drunk.


    but you cant just pretend nothing happenned.


    maybe, i would also spare my brothers girlfriend and maybe ask her if she would like to leave and go get something to eat or a coffee. it isnt fair to have her sit through that if you arent there.





    after, maybe the next day when they both are hung over and feeling sorry for themselves have at er.


    they need to know that what they're doing is wrong, embarrasing, immature and needs to stop. now.


    dont go easy on them. tough love, they obviouly need it. your mom is going to be the hardest, but with your brother, just drill it into him. its not right and that he deffinatly never does that in front of his new girlfriend.


    as for mom, be mad at her. having someones child mad at them should ultimatly open their eyes to what they are doing is wrong.


    tell her this needs to stop. if you have to raise your voise do so. (make sure when the comfrontation is happenning its just you and mom or broher, or the three of you) if they have a problem with drinking and you feel they are now addicted, more so mom, bring panflites for AAA or something. and when you are done drilling into her that it needs to stop, sit down with her and take her hand. tell her that you want to help her and that you think AAA is the only real option. give her the panflites, and leave. give her time to think.


    this is what i would do, but i think its one of the only ways to help them.





    hope this helps : )





    pardon my spelling, spell check isnt working and im really lazy.. and not a good speller. lolWhat would you do in this situation?
    Not normal at all. Would they act that way if they were sober?





    Have you had any negative comments from the other occupants of the trailer park?
    i hope this isnt really what happened to you but i would say everything up front. id tell the mom to straighten up and stop acting like a 13 year old boy who drank for the first time.. i would also apologize to the girlfriend and let her know that these stuff happen in the family..(the truth is always the best; dont worry about her reaction or reply) i would also let the brother know that hes old enough to control himself and not go along with what the ';mom'; is doing.. i would call the shots right there up front loud and clear.. be the B O S S in those situations. sorry if that happened to you.. i no how embarassing it can be.
    Apologise to the girlfriend and ask her to leave the house with you, and say to her you're really sorry for what's been going on.





    __________





    Ok, if you ahve the chance to get back to talk to the girlfriend, just explain to her the real situtation, is she still dating your brother?

    Question About Boys with Girlfriends?

    I'm a 24 female and in college. I don't have a lot of relationship/boy experience.





    I work with a fellow classmate who I find extremely attractive. Soon after meeting him, I started flirting with him and casually asked for his phone number, which he gave me. After I got the number, I asked him if he had a girlfriend...he didnt really answer, he just kinda smiled/laughed.





    I found out later that evening on my own that he does have a girlfriend that he has been with for about a year.





    Last night there was a dance on campus and I went with my friends. I saw him and his girlfriend there. He eventually saw me as well, but after a few more minutes, I noticed that he and his girlfriend had left the dance and I never saw them again the rest of the night. The thought mildly crossed my mind that he left because he saw me, but I don't want to jump to conclusions.





    Plus there is another female classmate that we work with who keeps saying things to him in front of all of the other co-workers about how I really like him, etc. It's sort of embarrassing and since he never acknowledges any of the comments about me liking him or says anything in response, I think it bothers him too. But he always talks to me if I start conversing with him and he laughs at my jokes...we have a pretty decent time at work.





    Last night at the dance the co-worker saw him kiss his girlfriend and at some point went up to him and said, ';You, know there's someone who would be pretty upset if she saw you kissing your girlfriend.'; She was of course referring to me. I was upset at her when she told me she had said this to him, but I didn't say anything to her. I just let it go.





    What do you think? I really like this guy, but his behavior is kind of confusing to me. Why didn't he just tell me he had a girlfriend when I first began flirting with him and asking for his number???Question About Boys with Girlfriends?
    Your situation reminds me of a guy I met a few summers ago. He was a friend of a friend, and he, I, my sister, and our three other friends went to Fenwick Island for the day, to visit my sister's best friend Alex.





    I flirted (not on purpose) with the guy the whole day, and he flirted back. We had a great day, and spent most of it together, either building a sand pit, or swimming with the rest of the group.





    Everything was fine and dandy until we headed back to our friend's house to shower. My sister pulled me aside, and told me the guy had a girlfriend, but no one was sure if they were still together or not. It hurt, that it might be true, and I wondered that if he did indeed have a girlfriend, why did he still continue to flirt, or not say anything to me about it?





    So, to make this long story short, I sent him a message on Facebook when I got home, and found out the real truth. He was in a two year relationship, and he said he'd love to have me as a friend, with a possibility of being more in the future.





    I forgot about him, and to this day, we're nothing more than Facebook buddies. He eventually broke up with his girlfriend, but it didn't matter to me. I'd already found the perfect guy.





    Good luck!Question About Boys with Girlfriends?
    heh funny im a guy in the guy's situation, it was my friend that was bothering me and i pretty much had to slap him in the middle of a sentence to get him to stop... i did go out of my way to avoid the lady and my girlfriend really wanted me to and i knew that
    Sorry to burst your bubble, but it is your behavior that is confusing. You asked for his number, and it does not matter what he says, you saw him with his gf. I think you need to just drop the whole thing with this guy
    SORRY GURL


    U NEED TO LET IT GO


    ur friends and ut attitude iz ruining eveything


    if u keep this going ur gonna make it awkward


    between u 2
    this is what I think:


    I think he is somewhat attracted to you and he didn't want to hurt your feelings or w/e by him totally rejected you by him telling you that he has a gf in case things between him and his gf don't work out he can still have a chance w/ u. i hope that made sense.


    answer mine?


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    You will simply be his playmate when his girlfriend start getting on his nerve. NEVER date a guy that blatantly show you he has a girlfriend. He will NOT choose you over his girlfriend.





    When you are sure they broke up see where you stand in his eyes, otherwise, you will be used guaranteed! If he couldn't even answer a simple question like do you have a girlfriend, he is very conniving, unfaithful and sneaky. No matter how cute he is and how much you like him, he is taken. Move on to a single guy.

    Does her best friend want me? This WAS REALLY WEIRD. She's never even seen me. Is she telling the truth?

    Alright, so I am friends with this girl. I called her up last night and her best friend picked up the phone instead. I have never met her best friend, but she has seen me before once from a distance.





    Well, she told me that my friend wasn't there and if she could take a message. We started a convo instead and almost immediately she started talking about how rich her parents were and how she was ';cute and clumsy'; and how she played 4 different sports and really kept her body in shape. And since I've never seen her, I said ';haha oh reaaaly? Now how do I know I'm not talking to some 65 year old lady?'; And she responds, ';because I don't lie. Seriously, if you ever met me, you would realize that I am soo gorgeous and you would want to tell everyone I was your girlfriend.';





    I know she was flirting with me, but would she brag about her ';sexy body'; if she didn't have one? And what the hell is the deal here? I mean if she was REALLY hot, she wouldn't talk to me like this right?Does her best friend want me? This WAS REALLY WEIRD. She's never even seen me. Is she telling the truth?
    she could be jealous of her friend for being friends with you, or she was messing with you and doesnt mean anything by it, or she wasnt kidding and wants to be with you(desperate and wanting attention) as a girl i joke around w my friends but i tell them that im kidding. ur best bet is to tell ur friend what happened and see her take on it, but for now dont worry about itDoes her best friend want me? This WAS REALLY WEIRD. She's never even seen me. Is she telling the truth?
    she's desperate and probably thought u were cute when she seen u so now she is trying to think of whatever she can to get u interested
    i think that she is lying just to get u to meet up w/ her and go out w/ her so she can get the attention that she needs for at least one night
    she probally doesnt have a ';sexy body';. it sounds like shes desperate, or she wouldnt be talking to a guy she bearly knows. she is very desperate.
    She's flirting and playing. Don't take her seriously, but go ahead and play if you feel like it. It most likely isn't anything she is taking seriously.
    yeah. she's just desperate for attention. dont give it to her, its not worth your time

    Would You Stop Flirting, Hugging & Even Talking To Other Girls For The One You Love ?

    Lets say your girlfriend is a very jealous person and doesn't like when you flirt/hug/talk with other girls. But you really liked her.. How far would you go until you had to give up and move on?Would You Stop Flirting, Hugging %26amp; Even Talking To Other Girls For The One You Love ?
    its not like she is asking you not to be friends with them, she just doesnt want you flirting with all of them.Would You Stop Flirting, Hugging %26amp; Even Talking To Other Girls For The One You Love ?
    well, im the jealous girlfriend type, and m boyfriend is also the jealous type. He never ever puts me in situations thatd make me jealous, ever. he wants to keep me happy and doesnt mind it if im the only girl he like is wih. he can hang out with other girls you know, but hes caring enuf to just not. this has helped us grow together and become much closer. i still hang out with my dude frnz and stuf and ill hug them, but not relly lik in fornt of him but he knows. he'll get jealous but we get over it. i do try to not put him in situations that make him feel upset though.
    yea except talking but she'll thin kyou are flirting if you talk to girls. if you want to piss off your girlfriend anytime or just for the spite of it talk to other girls and flirt thats what i did cause my girlfriend would hug other guys and flirt and stuff so i was like f*ck her. now that i think bacvk on it i shouldv'e dumped her awhile ago.
    i understand where shes coming from. i think u can TALK 2 them but not hug or flirt.


    if the girl didnt like u talking, being around them, orbeing friends with them then forget about her
    What the hell? She doesn't let you talk to other girls? Your girlfriend has serious jealousy issues she needs to sort out.
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  • Love! what do you think?

    101 Most Romantic/Passionate/Sweet Things To Do For Your


    Girlfriend/Boyfriend


    (101 steps to having a good relationship)





    1. Watch the sunset together.


    2. Take showers together.


    3. Back rubs/massages.


    4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ blacklight.


    5. French Kiss.


    6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt.


    7. Whisper to each other.


    8. Cook for each other.


    9. Skinny dip.


    10. Make out in the rain.


    11. Dress each other.


    12. Undress each other.


    13. Kiss every part of their body.


    14. Hold hands.


    15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other, not sex)


    16. One word: Foreplay


    17. Sit and talk in just underwear.


    18. Buy gifts for each other.


    19. Roses.


    20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time


    you're


    together.


    21. Wear his clothes.


    22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.


    23. Incense/candles/oils/blackligh... and music make for great


    cuddling/sex.


    24. Kiss at every chance you get.


    25. Don't wear underwear and let them find out.


    26. Kinky is bad; Blindfolds are good.


    27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the


    ear,


    then whisper I love you.


    28. Bubble baths.


    29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.


    30. Make love.


    31. Write poetry for each other.


    32. Kiss/smell her hair.


    33. Hugs are the universal medicine.


    34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you


    mean


    it.


    35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.


    36. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie.


    37. Spend every second possible together.


    38. Tell her that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to.


    And


    mean it.


    39. Look into each other's eyes.


    40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you


    love


    her, and kiss her lightly.


    41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.


    42. When in public, only flirt w/ each other.


    43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.


    44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.


    45. Clothes are no fun.


    46. Buy her a ring.


    47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday.


    48. Sing to each other.


    49. Read to each other.


    50. PDA = Public Display of Affection.


    51. Take advantage of any time alone together.


    52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her


    name


    53. Draw. (If you can)


    54. Let her sit on your lap.


    55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.


    56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks,


    and collarbones, and hands, and ears.


    57. Kiss her stomach.


    58. Always hold her around her hips/sides.


    59. Guys like half-shirts.


    60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.


    61. Spaghetti (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)


    62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it


    over


    your heart.


    63. Unless you can feel their hear beating, you aren't close enough.


    64. Dance together.


    65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.


    66. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with


    her


    head in my lap.


    67. Carry her to bed.


    68. Waterbeds are fun.


    69. You figure it out.


    70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have


    to


    look in a mirror to read it.


    71. Break every one of your parent's relationship rules for them.


    72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes


    73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to


    call and say I love you.


    74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about


    them.


    75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.


    76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.


    77. Ride home and call them.


    78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.


    79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you


    have.


    80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points)


    81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)


    82. Brush her hair out of her face for her.


    83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them.


    84. Hang out with his/her friends. (more brownie points)


    85. Go to church/pray/worship together.


    86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.


    87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.


    88. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.


    89. Everyone deserves a second chance.


    90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.


    91. Make sacrifices for each other.


    92. Really love each other, or don't stay together.


    93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and


    give


    it to them.


    94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't


    thinking about them, and make sure they know it.


    95. Love yourself before you love anyone else.


    96. Buy her a charm bracelet/necklace w/her name on it.


    97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.


    98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.


    99. Sleep naked together.


    100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.


    101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say,


    ';Sweet


    dreams.';Love! what do you think?
    HI





    i think we all should take a class from u of loveLove! what do you think?
    wow I like it
    102. Make long, wild, messy, sex with em.
    Love stinks.





    Judging from that corny stuff, you're either in junior high or high school and have no clue how the real world works.





    Not everyone deserves a second chance either. That's like telling a girl it's ok to get back together with a dude that beat her up. Yeah, real smart.
    Phew that was a long one, but would say that 95 is really important, coz a relationship based on insecurity will fall at the first hurdle.
    Ya,


    But it destroys the Life if it's All Repeating between a BF and GF.


    is the life at all Love ???
    hello,you full in love ,did you got some one,if not ,iam interest ,


    cityhopess at yah oo.c .ok


    this is real love talk,but some thing still miss,

    Friends with your crush's girlfriend?

    There is this guy I really like at my Chruch but he has a girlfriend. I am kind of friends with the guy and his girlfriend seems like a fun person to be around and I kind of want to be her friend. The promblem is I'm afraid that she will talk with me about her boyfriend but I don't think I could handle it because I don't like to see them talking or flirting together. I don't want to break them up so will our friendship work? She seems to think I'm a cool person.





    I all so want to know how I can get over seeing them together because I don't know how long it will take when I get over this guy so how can I be around him while he is talking to his girlfriend.? Please help.Friends with your crush's girlfriend?
    well than i say dont be friends with her if you think she will talk to you about her boyfriend you can try being friends with her if you get over him





    my crush has a girlfriend too she trying to be friends with me but i dont think so because i hate her talking about her boyfriend who i had a crush on for a year (this is over myspace she is trying to do)

    Guy's what kind of girls do you like, be very very specific?

    how do you like girls to be


    1)do you like girls tall, medium , or small


    2)dark heir or light


    3)brown eyes or black


    4)how tall do they have to be


    5)would you flirt with other girls having a girlfriend


    6)do you telling the true


    7)guys would you let your girlfriend go out with other guys yes or no knowing that she loves you


    8)how many girls would you flirt at the same time


    9)how much weigh should you're girlfriend should weigh


    10) if you're girlfriend tells you to lose weigh would you do it


    11)if she tells you to get in shape would you do it


    12)are you vegan


    13)would you preshure you're girlfriend to have SEX with you knowig that she desent whant to


    14)if you would have SEX would you wear a condom


    15)what kind of things would you do with you're girlfriend


    16)how long would you date a girl


    17)would you get piste if you're girlfriend dance with another guy


    18)guys how SEXY can't you be


    19) can you dance like a stripierGuy's what kind of girls do you like, be very very specific?
    as long as she's thick have a nice size chest and dont have no more than two kids. and don't smoke than she's all good in my book.

    Guy's what kind of girls do you like, be very very specific?

    how do you like girls to be


    1)do you like girls tall, medium , or small


    2)dark heir or light


    3)brown eyes or black


    4)how tall do they have to be


    5)would you flirt with other girls having a girlfriend


    6)do you telling the true


    7)guys would you let your girlfriend go out with other guys yes or no knowing that she loves you


    8)how many girls would you flirt at the same time


    9)how much weigh should you're girlfriend should weigh


    10) if you're girlfriend tells you to lose weigh would you do it


    11)if she tells you to get in shape would you do it


    12)are you vegan


    13)would you preshure you're girlfriend to have SEX with you knowig that she desent whant to


    14)if you would have SEX would you wear a condom


    15)what kind of things would you do with you're girlfriend


    16)how long would you date a girl


    17)would you get piste if you're girlfriend dance with another guy


    18)guys how SEXY can't you be


    19) can you dance like a stripierGuy's what kind of girls do you like, be very very specific?
    as long as she's thick have a nice size chest and dont have no more than two kids. and don't smoke than she's all good in my book.

    Excuses or honest truth?

    My crush and I are constantly flirting in class and he already knows how I feel about him, and he said he likes me too (supposedly)





    so today I asked him what was going on between us, and he said he likes me, but whats to get to know me better (we've only known each other for about 1 month) and that he doesn't want to date me, and then find out he doesn't really like me like that, and end up hurting me, uh sure. I don't know. I asked him ';Why am I good enough to flirt with, but not good enough to be your girlfriend'; and he was like ';Oh, well having a girlfriend is more serious. It takes more commitment.'; I completely understand that because that's what happened with the last guy I dated. We went out without knowing each other, and then I ended up breaking up with him because I didn't really like him as more then a friend, but do guys honestly think like that?! He says he wants to try hanging out outside of school first...





    My aunt said that its just an excuse because if a guy likes you, he doesn't care, he'll just ask you out.





    I don't want to think like that, but maybe she's right? opinions?Excuses or honest truth?
    umm its hard


    i think u need to get to know him forreal forreal give it time

    What should I do next time I see her at work?

    I just started working here 3months ago. I started talking to her about 1month ago. We only talk for a few sec. every now and then, since we both work different positions and we dont see each other that much. Also we only work together 2times a wk for 3hrs a shift.





    Everytime she clocks in and im already there she goes up to me to greet me and in the process touches my shoulder,back or arm.





    A few wks ago she caught me by suprised when all of a sudden she put both her hands on my cheeks(I didnt see her coming)while telling me';look my hands are cold';.





    I dont see her doing this to any other guy there at work.





    the other day she saw me using the work phone from afar she asked me twice ';who are you talking too?(whispering) Your girlfriend?





    today when we see each other we are going to greed each other(like always) and she will tell me how long its been since we last saw each other.. so Im going to tell her '; I know, I was already starting to miss your cute smile'; .. my question is what will she think of this.. ????





    she has a boyfriend but not at work..I know my chances are slim since I dont talk to her friends like I talk to her(so they think im quiet)but Im just looking for a mess around time..since I wouldnt trust her as a girlfriend. she is a flirt.. but only with me at work.. and I do stalk her so i know this.. what should I do?What should I do next time I see her at work?
    Ehh dont do anything out of the ordinary until you know she likes you xD
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    I had a really great boyfriend a few months ago. He was really great to me. He was sweet and helped me out with problems. The thing was we didn't live close to each other. So we broke up. I know I am young but I don't understand him. He started ignoring me because he got a new girl and I kept congratulating him. I didn't get it. But then he talked to me again so I thought we were cool. I thought he wanted to be my friend but then he starting kinda hitting on me. I asked him if the undead guy on a game was sexy just joking around and he said '; The undead guy isn't sexy but you are.'; I just said '; Uh ok...? Please don't say that to me...'; and he said, ';Oh I'm not hitting on you I'm just complementing your beauty.'; So I was pretty mad by now. I said ';Ok well complement your girlfriend.'; Man I was a jerk but so was he. It was like he was trying to make me jealous and then he said. ';Oh no no no. I love my little country girl.'; Yuck......Anyway then he started talking about how he couldn't be everyone's knight in shining armor what the hell is wrong with him? I never said anything about that... So then a few days later we were talking again and I was kinda brushing him off because he was acting like we were going out or something and he said. ';I'm trying to tell you how I feel.'; and I was just like. '; Ok...well how do you feel?'; Or something like that. He got mad and basically said I don't understand anything. He's only one year and a few months older then me and calls me a little kid. So then I told him. '; I don't care what you say I love you ok?..And I don't care if you hate me or if you're mean to me...I just want you to know.'; Then he started getting into the whole. ';I love my girl friend!'; thing. And he told me to tell him I hate him... it was really weird he said I was hurting him. Then I asked him what would make him happy the next day. he said. ';could you leave me alone?'; I said '; Would it really make you happy if I stopped talking to you?'; he simply said ';Yes.'; So I said. '; Ok then goodbye.'; and I logged off. I cried my eyes out like a little kid. I don't him at all. He always tells me how much he loves his girlfriend and always flirts with me without knowing it. I just don't know what he means. And I told him I wouldn't talk to him I haven't since and I can't until he talks to me...Is this a good thing to do? Or should I talk to him?...My mom is friends with his family and they work in the same company. I've known his grandma for a few years now and I know his sister, brothers, step mom and his dad pretty well and I still talk to them. But I don't think they know what's going on with us...I just don't want to hurt him but I really need to know how he's feeling please help...Sorry this is so long ha haWhat should I do about my ex? Do you speak guy?
    hun.. i think he's just screwing around with ur emotions on purpose


    he sound like a real asshole.. i say u dont talk to him anymore perminatly..What should I do about my ex? Do you speak guy?
    yes this guy just enjoys messing with you. he's being cruel knowing you still love him.





    please help me with my problem:


    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtvWwVxdaOr4uCPkduadHATT5gt.;_ylv=3?qid=20090814090258AA3whMI

    My Girlfriend wants to flirt with other guys.?

    She wants to, and she does a little, but I assume she wants to more. Im all about making her happy, so i want her to be able to. But the problem is, it tears me apart. For some reason, i cant stand it. What im asking from you Answerers is how to not feel so bad.





    And, just for a little bit for my understanding, why do girls want to flirt with other guys when your in a relationship? ';Im here, flirt with me!'; i think. But there seems to be a novelty when flirting with others.





    No negative comments, i want answers answering my question, thanks.





    Thank you, YipMy Girlfriend wants to flirt with other guys.?
    My boyfriend had the same problem with me, so I should know right? For some reason, girls have a lot of fun with flirting. Sometimes, it is just the only way they know to be better friends with guys, (and guys are good friends to have)For me it was that I wanted to feel like more than one person did like them. It gives girls a sense of security, and lets them feel as though they are not being controlled by you. She probably doesn't REALLY like the guys she flirts with.Did she actually say she wanted to flirt more? Sometimes we are not aware that guys consider what we do flirting.My Girlfriend wants to flirt with other guys.?
    yo just leave her if shes gonna flirt with other boys and mess with your head





    shes just wasting your time and money
    move on, she isn't for u, if u treat her right but she don't treat u right.
    ok heres the deal there is nothing wrong with flirting as long as she doesnt disrespect you and goes home with you. maybe she is setting the stage for some poppin things when you do get her home...
    well, you can't make it hurt less overnight. but she is trying to make sure that you care. if you don't get jealous at all, she will think you don't care. if you get too jealous, then she will think you care too much and are too clingy. whenever she flirts with other guys, you flirt with other girls or even her.

    Does he try to hold me as a match or what?

    Ok I go to this gym since a year and 8 months now. I remember when I saw that guy I wasn't crazy about him or feel that much only remember my trainer told wowww he likes you I think. I used to ask if he is american and sometime he will capt my attention. He used to impress me with the weights when he exercise try to lift the heaviest afafajajaja and walk back and forth until I saw him only thing I'll do was not look his eyes and and try to ignore him.Ok he started looking at me a lot and flirt with me that used to make me real shy or at any occasion will look at me when I don't pay attention, or take off his shirt when I exercise closed behind him.Really sexy me like it jejeje. After so long time I felt more and more connected to him so I made a move and said hi after he did.I started saying hi to him and him also and he his always the one to do it first.This week I asked him for his name, he asked me for mine we shake hand and he said i'm glad we officaly now each other now I'm always here.


    A guy who was watching the act chat at him and said something really wrong about me in spanish at the moment( like I was after him for...) , he told him she is fine, she is right women , she is not what you think, I saw her since a long time,there is something,It is slow a step by step, I'm taking it smoothly, I think she made the move now,yes there something willl see.





    I wanted to ask some information about him so I asked a mutual friend but she could'nt tell me nothing at first with the description I gave her.Yesterday, I told her his name and she told me WHAT( him) he have a girlfriend he just bought here last week from the Dominican Republic.ANd by coicidence he didn't come for almost 2 weeks, I was chocked and asked are you sure and repeat the description.





    God that guy make me like him so bad now and he had that girlfriend that he used to go to Dominican Republic at every occasion he could. Why because another mutual friend told me a story similar and as advice i told him tell your friend to becarefull.Now that I recall I realize his him and that girl he went crazy for.





    To tell the truth I'm mad,he didn't do nothing wrong to me,but why flirting with me and bought me so much attention and show jalousy when he see me talk to another guy.





    1-What should i do?


    2-Should I continue the step by step talk and see where that lead?


    3- He now makes me really mad meaning he brought her in the US and come to the gym this Tuesday and we exchange name and looks.


    4- Why he act like that with me,why doing that?


    5- Should next time he talk to me,I tell him and how is your girlfriend ,do she get well with her new home?


    6-My friend which is our mutual friend told me that she don't like the girlfriend she have, they are not a good match at all? that she fear that will not last long.


    7- do he try to hold me as a macth if he leave her?





    Please answer me all I will really appreciate. I do like him but will never let my heart broke for no one again.Does he try to hold me as a match or what?
    check it


    yr answers are here





    http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Amvxd4.XQUWJG7VJT7kIJGqQHQx.;_ylv=3?qid=20080807232718AACPMNw

    Does he try to hold me as a match or what?

    Does he try to hold me as a match or what?


    Ok I go to this gym since a year and 8 months now. I remember when I saw that guy I wasn't crazy about him or feel that much only remember my trainer told wowww he likes you I think. I used to ask if he is american and sometime he will capt my attention. He used to impress me with the weights when he exercise try to lift the heaviest afafajajaja and walk back and forth until I saw him only thing I'll do was not look his eyes and and try to ignore him.Ok he started looking at me a lot and flirt with me that used to make me real shy or at any occasion will look at me when I don't pay attention, or take off his shirt when I exercise closed behind him.Really sexy me like it jejeje. After so long time I felt more and more connected to him so I made a move and said hi after he did.I started saying hi to him and him also and he his always the one to do it first.This week I asked him for his name, he asked me for mine we shake hand and he said i'm glad we officaly now each other now I'm always here.


    A guy who was watching the act chat at him and said something really wrong about me in spanish at the moment( like I was after him for...) , he told him she is fine, she is right women , she is not what you think, I saw her since a long time,there is something,It is slow a step by step, I'm taking it smoothly, I think she made the move now,yes there something willl see.





    I wanted to ask some information about him so I asked a mutual friend but she could'nt tell me nothing at first with the description I gave her.Yesterday, I told her his name and she told me WHAT( him) he have a girlfriend he just bought here last week from the Dominican Republic.ANd by coicidence he didn't come for almost 2 weeks, I was chocked and asked are you sure and repeat the description.





    God that guy make me like him so bad now and he had that girlfriend that he used to go to Dominican Republic at every occasion he could. Why because another mutual friend told me a story similar and as advice i told him tell your friend to becarefull.Now that I recall I realize his him and that girl he went crazy for.





    To tell the truth I'm mad,he didn't do nothing wrong to me,but why flirting with me and bought me so much attention and show jalousy when he see me talk to another guy.





    1-What should i do?


    2-Should I continue the step by step talk and see where that lead?


    3- He now makes me really mad meaning he brought her in the US and come to the gym this Tuesday and we exchange name and looks.


    4- Why he act like that with me,why doing that?


    5- Should next time he talk to me,I tell him and how is your girlfriend ,do she get well with her new home?


    6-My friend which is our mutual friend told me that she don't like the girlfriend she have, they are not a good match at all? that she fear that will not last long.


    7- do he try to hold me as a macth if he leave her?





    Please answer me all I will really appreciate. I do like him but will never let my heart broke for no one again.Does he try to hold me as a match or what?
    ......you should look for some one who is interested in serious relationship with you and will respect you.Does he try to hold me as a match or what?
    get over it and move on the guy's a pig so what as if it should be a shock and plus in that culture american women are considered a easy lay sorry but those are the breaks
    I think you should not get worried.


    DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING FROM HIM AND DO NOT ASSUME/ANTICIPATE ANYTHING FROM HIM.


    Just behave as a friend, in this way you will be fine.


    If he tries flirting give him a jerk or rude behavior.


    You have to learn to deal with such guys.


    Be sure that he really has GF and he is just flirting with you.


    Teach him a lesson only if he overdoes things.


    Best Of Luck


    By the way the girl I proposed once has presumed a LOT about me and treated me very badly. Dont do that with him if he is a good guy
    why are you soo mad? i mean he didn't ask you out yet or he never said he wanted to be your boyfriend or whatever. i mean how do you know he doesn't want to be friends or something like that. just be a friend with him and talk tohim if you see him or just say a nice hello or something. and if you guys like really get in a convo ask him if he's single or what he does or whatever dont start jumpin on him right away, you BARELYY know him. just be chill. seriously.
    Relax!! He is just talking with you and not proposing you for anything.


    I guess you see signs, which simply do not exist; all you do is exaggerating several things.


    Okay, he takes his shirt off鈥?something usual in my gym as well.


    And I must say that I greet lots of people in my gym every day, male and female. And I chat with almost everybody, there is no big fuzz about it.


    It麓s just having fun, chatting a while and spend a good time while doing exercises.


    If I would think that all the guys who speak with me in the gym would like to have a sentimental relationship with me鈥?honey, I would have more than 20 boy friends鈥?


    You see things much to pragmatic, nowadays it is pretty normal to talk with everybody and really nobody needs anybody to be presented officially.


    Maybe this guy tried to flirt a little with you, but this is also something that happens a lot and you should not take it serious at all. It麓s like the typical mach thing like, hey baby, can you see how big my muscles are? I am a real damned good looking guy and I know it鈥?That麓s all.


    Don麓t change your behaviour towards him, he simply wants a certain friendship in the gym with you and that麓s it.


    If you start to behave strange now nobody would understand you.


    Just go on the same way as before and forget the idea that there could be anything more in-between the things he says and does.

    Does he try to hold me as a match or what?

    Ok I go to this gym since a year and 8 months now. I remember when I saw that guy I wasn't crazy about him or feel that much only remember my trainer told wowww he likes you I think. I used to ask if he is american and sometime, he will capt my attention. He used to impress me with the weights when he exercise try to lift the heaviest ajajaja and walk back and forth until I saw him ,only thing I'll do was not look his eyes and and try to ignore him.Ok he started looking at me a lot and flirt with me that used to make me real shy or at any occasion will look at me when I don't pay attention, or take off his shirt when I exercise closed behind him.Really sexy me like it jejeje. After so long time I felt more and more connected to him so I made a move and said hi after he did.I started saying hi to him and him also and he his always the one to do it first.This week I asked him for his name, he asked me for mine we shake hand and he said i'm glad we officaly now each other now I'm always here.


    A guy who was watching the act ,chat at him and said something really wrong about me in spanish at the moment( like I was after him for...) , he told him she is fine, she is right women , she is not what you think, I saw her since a long time,there is something,It is slow a step by step, I'm taking it smoothly, I think she made the move now,yes there something willl see.





    I wanted to ask some information about him so I asked a mutual friend but she could'nt tell me nothing at first with the description I gave her.Yesterday, I told her his name and she told me WHAT( him) he have a girlfriend he just bought here last week from the Dominican Republic.ANd by coicidence he didn't come for almost 2 weeks, I was chocked and asked are you sure and repeat the description.





    God that guy make me like him so bad now and he had that girlfriend that he used to go to Dominican Republic at every occasion he could. Why because another mutual friend told me a story similar and as advice i told him tell your friend to becarefull.Now that I recall I realize It's him and that girl he went crazy for.





    To tell the truth I'm mad,he didn't do nothing wrong to me,but why flirting with me and bought me so much attention and show jalousy when he sees me talk to another guy.





    1-What should i do?


    2-Should I continue the step by step talk and see where that lead?


    3- He now makes me really mad meaning he brought her in the US and come to the gym this Tuesday and we exchange name and looks.


    4- Why he act like that with me,why doing that?


    5- Should next time he talk to me,I tell him and how is your girlfriend ,do she get well with her new home?


    6-My friend which is our mutual friend told me that she don't like the girlfriend she have, they are not a good match at all? that she fear that will not last long.


    7- do he try to hold me as a macth if he leave her?





    Please answer me all I will really appreciate. I do like him but will never let my heart broke for no one again.Does he try to hold me as a match or what?
    Just forget him and start a new life.


    He is not worth your attention.


    Does he try to hold me as a match or what?
    you r a sad loser, just like the answerer ';atish the fire'; (hello ashish bhatia)





    get a life you pair of losers
    nice story


    hope i read it at some point
    i read same question 3rd time in yahoo answers
    i already got the best answer for this one, wohooo, one more free ten points, refer my answer in the link below!





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    I'm sorry this happened to me i didn't want to look at him and he did everything he could to get my attention finally after 6mths i gave in and said hi whats going on well we started talking going to lunch together and i really started liking this guy well he left me for 2 weeks to go to the dominican republic i was wondering why well come to find out he went over there to get his wife and daughter i was crushed didn't know what do to to make a long story short it was too late for me i was pregnant already i now have a four year old son he is not raising and wants nothing to do with i would not have ever in a million years thought he was a bad person or even abandon a son but .....he did stay away know trust me its easier to mend a broken heart of your own then one day try to mend your child


    good luck steer clear hes trouble
    Dumb skank! Why ya posting this in cricket? Or dont Yanks read English? lmao, the Indians do better with the language then you lot, at least they dont get in the wrong section.
    confront him. Ask him if he is single... if his answer is yes, tell him that you have heard different and that you are not looking for a player. If not sure yet, follow your instincts, don't allow yourself to be fooled by a player.
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    ok, my girl friend “I think” is talking to other men and being really great friends with them, maybe its just me, but it seems like I'm not good enough anymore. So anyways, I’m having a really hard time dealing with this.


    It’s either me or him.


    I can’t keep this up without exploding.


    I do not know if anything she is telling me is the truth anymore, how do I know if she isn’t doing other things with them?


    My mom and even some of my friends told me that something like that may happen, and it seems to be coming true, first she starts talking with him, then starts being really good friends with him, “probably flirting and everything else behind my back”.


    What would you do if your girlfriend or boy friend started flirting with the opposite sex?


    Its making me sick, what should I do, move on? I might if she doesn’t stop, and get rid of those new ones.


    I stayed so so loyal to her, not even looking at other women, talking to them, or even thinking about them, only her, because I know she would may have felt uncomfortable with that. but she seems to think its okay to play with other men.


    Its either me or them, if I’m not good enough anymore, then she doesn’t need me anymore then.I need help, what should i do?
    Sweety, please don't worry you're the only person I ever want to be with. I'm not lieing, please believe me. I only asked you if you would be upset if I had male friends, you should have told me it was a problem. I'll stop talking to them and take them off my friends list and anything else you want me to do. I love you more than anything imaginable and always will. Please don't leave me. I find all other people quite revolting, you're the only person I'm attracted to. Please believe me. I swear on my life that I'd never cheat, lie, think about other people, or do anything to hurt you. I promise that you'll be the only man I'll ever talk to. I'm really really sorry that this upset you. I'll stop talking to them. I love you more than anything and I never want to leave you. Please believe that. I really want to marry you still, if you still want to marry me. It hurts that you think I'd cheat, I promise that I'll never do that. I want to be with you more than anything in the world, I'm completely uprooting my life for you. You're perfect in every way possible. I love you very very very much. I'm very proud of you for being so loyal, thank you very very much. You mean everything to mean. I don't want other men, I want you!I need help, what should i do?
    Sadly, you can't control what she does. :( Perhaps you should just learn to trust her. Stop believing what others are saying. You will only end up destroying your relationship by being too untrusting, controlling, and possessive. That's very suffocating.





    There's seriously nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite gender when you're in a relationship. She's in a relationship, not dead. You should also form your own friendships outside the relationship. And don't do it as a means of ';getting back'; at her, or trying to make her jealous. Do it, because you trust yourself enough to trust her. It helps you have a healthy relationship with her.
    Its not right to be flirting with others, when you are in a relationship.You were respectful towards her feelings, and so she should return the favor. Tell her this and let her know you dont appreciate her flirting. If she continues, then leave. She'll just keep disrespecting you. There are TONS of girls out there that would really appreciate a boyfriend who wasn't distracted by other women. Your more valuable than you even realize. Good luck.