Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Flirting vs Friendly and the difference?

Is it ';ok'; if your boyfriend/girlfriend flirted with others when they are in a serious relationship? Or is there a extent on how far they can flirt. Or if they are serious in a relationship is not ok to flirt?





And what is the main distinct different between being FRIENDLY and FLIRTING?Flirting vs Friendly and the difference?
I don't think it's a question of weather it's okay or not, it's a question as to where it leads. Flirting is really just a (male or female)way to feel we are still desirable. We all want to feel that warm feeling that comes from being liked/wanted. For the most part that's all it is and that is where it ends. It only becomes a problem when we allow that feeling to result in an action that is regrettable. Feeling liked/wanted is normal, needed, but acting on it when in a serious relationship is dangerous to say the least.


Chances are if you find yourself or your ';other'; flirting a lot and you are not sure if you would act on it or not (given the opportunity) there is a question of weather the relationship is solid to begin with.


Other question...Friendly vs. Flirting, yes there is a difference, it's intent, what is the intent? It also depends on how it is received which you have little control over. You may think you are just being friendly while those on the other end may think you are flirting.


Flirting is fine, normal, just make sure you know the difference.

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