GUYS only : how do u feel when your girlfriend tells you to stay away from other girls?

I started a relationship with this really nice looking guy [not hot , but the gentle,good looking type].He is definitely not a flirt.But I have always felt he can do a better looking girlfriend than me.But he really wants me and values me.





Still I would feel so much more secure if he did not have any close female friends.He has few.But he has really sweet relationships with them.He is close to them But he is a very decent guy.





Sometimes I feel so much like saying not to talk to those girls


and i feel like i want to distance him from them.even though i know they are just friends.specially there is this girl that he was asking out, she rejected.he is still good friends with her.I have not told him to keep away from her.Recently he asked me whther i am jeoulos with her and i said no.She is also my friend so i dont actually feel so jeolous with her but she is really pretty.I don't actually mind them being friends but i would definitly prefer if they were not.





I want to know what a guy feels when his girlfriend tells him to keep away from other girls?


do u guys feel like u are being controlled?


do u feel that the girl is insecure ??


what effect would it have on the relationship ?


would it distance my boyfriend from me ?GUYS only : how do u feel when your girlfriend tells you to stay away from other girls?
I break up with her because she's far too jealous to be worth it. People have friendships, being in a relationship does not mean my partner can tell me who I can be friends with.GUYS only : how do u feel when your girlfriend tells you to stay away from other girls?
All relationships start with trust. If I ever felt that I couldn't trust the person I was with, I honestly don't think I could be with them.





If she every didn't trust me would be just as bad. I don't think either of us could live in that kind of relationship.


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Talking with friends is not the same as flirting. Don't give the other person reason to mistrust you.
I would say it depends on the guy.


If you make it sound right you can make it sound like compliment like you ';He's the best guy ever and your so afraid to lose him .';


Then by the end of the conversation he have more self esteem.
I know how you feel I've been in the same situation. For me, it ends the relationship either immediately or down the road. It just drives a wedge between us.
it would let me know you care about me and i would be happy.
I think you already know the answer(s). I'd feel like you have trust issues (do you?). I'd only feel controlled if I allowed it. Absolutely insecure. I'd question if she is the one for me. Quite possibly he would feel distanced, untrustworthy, etc.





Living in fear is no way to live. You were created a specific way with specific qualities. ...and even if he *were* to leave you for ';the pretty girl';, does that make him a loss? I think not!





Stand on your own, with confidence and the beauty in your heart. *That* will make him look and think twice.