How do you deal with your friend's girlfriend when she tries to flirt with you?

Here's the story: A girlfriend of one of my longtime pals tried to flirt with me, and she says it's no big deal. I don't like what she's doing and I don't want to jeopardize things with my friend. Once she wanted to kiss me but I said no. Should I tell him?How do you deal with your friend's girlfriend when she tries to flirt with you?
I think you should talk to his girlfriend first, telling her that you do not like what she's doing at all and to stop, and if she persists go to your buddy and tell him what's been going on. But be delicate about it. You don't want him assuming anything about you two.How do you deal with your friend's girlfriend when she tries to flirt with you?
Definitely let her know you aren't interested and her behavior isn't appropriate...in fact, you could tell her if she keeps it up you're going to talk to your friend about it because you wouldn't want your girl behaving that way and you feel he should know what she's up to (especially since you'd let her know the attention wasn't welcome).





After the warning, if the behavior doesn't stop...then I'd tell him if I were you.
in order to not cause any drama, when she starts flirting with you (when your friend is away i'm asuming), tell her to back off and stop flirting with you. you have to be a little cold and firm with her. if it doesn't work then just ignore her.
hey nerd, er, bookworm, take it for what it is: innocent flirting





don't act like a fool and make more of it than it is
Just drop hints that shes a bit of a sket.