Aight so, I was with this girl for more than a year, it was like a year n 3 months n we were like the perfect couple n we still are, we talk about getting married for sure n we're 16, she's the sweetest girl and she's just perfect. For background info, we had sex like 6 months ago for the first time n did it every now n then, so were not virgins or anything, but we kept it sparingly cuz we knew we wern't supposed 2 cuz shes rly christian. So we had some problems like 2 months ago cuz things were like redundant n we felt like we were losing the connection we had when we first met, now don't get me wrong, we were so damn in love, n because of that, we decided to take a little break to be apart from eachother for once and act less like a couple. Like we wouldn't hang out at lunch at school n she wouldn't come to my house. We thought it might be good so we realize how much we need eachother again. So like a week into our break, we have 1st period together n she needed to skip cuz she hadn't paid the teacher like $15 she owed for something so she asked me if I minded if she skipped with this guy who was kinda my friend, like we chilled once w my friends. So I said no I don't mind n they went to a gas station down the street from school n chilled at some bench. He said she was rly pretty n jaunt at some point, but other than that, they didn't talk about anything interesting. He starts texting her n says he's there for her n she told him that we were having problems n all, n he was acting like he cared n ****. He told her he liked her even tho he had a gf who was some freshman. She told him they couldnt go out cuz she loved me and is always going to. N he said he understood n ****. But she started to like him cuz he was sweet talkin her all the time n she told me about it, n I said she needs to stop liking him if she really wants us to get off this break. n she said she'll try to stop. They kissed for like a minute in the hall once during like 4th period n then like a week later while I was at swim practice after school, he asked if he could come over to her house. Her mom wasn't home and she said yes expecting they might just make out n stuff, but nothing more. They talked for a while n ended up kissin n then they did **** for a while. She's really easily turned on when she's attracted to someone, n then they had sex for like 5 minutes before she got her head straight and realized she was basically throwing our future out the window. She told him he needed to leave. One night she came over to my house n we chilled in the basement, we almost did it when she started crying so damn bad. I asked her what was so wrong but she couldn't talk she cryed for like 10 minutes with me holding her wondering whats wrong. Then she told me n she was like about to kill herself she was so sad. Before I could respond, she said it was the biggest mistake cuz she ruined our future together n that she was so dumb n she kept beatin herself up about it. Then I finally got a chance to talk and I told her theres nothing that would make me stop loving her, but that she made a really stupid decision. I deleted his number from her phone n called him right then tellin him he was about to get dropped at school the next day. He didn't come to school that day but the next day I pulled myself together n decided it wasn't a smart idea to beat some dudes *** in school. I wasn't tryin to get suspended n charged for assault. They got camera's everywhere at school. But anyways, I told her I needed some time to stop thinking about it and she asked me if there was a chance of us getting back together cuz she loved me so much, n i said yes but it's gona take some time. So that's whats up, Now for the most part, i'm over it cuz it was like a month n a half ago, n i'm back with her n she really has changed alot, she doesn't flirt with guys anymore, she pays more attention to me n she's an all around better girlfriend. I feel like our relationship is stronger than it was b4 cuz that redundancy from b4 is gone and theres a huge connection between us again. Now the only problem is that it hurts to think back that she would get naked with another guy, cuz we were eachothers firsts and were supposed to be lasts. I understand that it was a mistake n she's so faithful n just perfect since then, so i feel like she's really making up for what she did, and I have no problem being with her for the rest of my life still cuz I know her personality, and what she did that day was completely out of character. How do I personally get past it myself, cuz it hurts to think back to it, that she would do something like that, especially considering the kind of girl she is. And when I do think back to it and start getting upset about it again, and I end up getting in a fight with her. N please, nobody tell me I need to dump her, cuz i've heard that from so many people and they don't know **** about us, I'm not dumping her.How do you get past your girlfriend previously having sex with someone else during a ';break';?
well i know that you may not want to hear this..but if there is no trust then there is no nothing..if you can't forget about her sleeping with some other guy then you might as well find someone else new...we all know that it's hard to let go of someone we love dearly, but think about it...can you really trust her if you all are having problems with your relationship..if she decides to go and talk to someone else about you alls problems(that's not good also..i dont believe in telling other people about problems in my relaiotnship..unless it's my mom..or my best friend) and then she sleeps with people that shes easily attracted to..that's not a good look in the future...you may not want to break up with her..and you might want to hold on..but eventually this is going to eat at you..and the relationship will end on it's own..what's not meant to be..just won't be..and even if you force it then your reltionship will be hell..because you can't let go..you're soo young..and this is your first love..most first loves don't last anyway they are just expeirience..and a chapter that eventually cloese once you get older.How do you get past your girlfriend previously having sex with someone else during a ';break';?
The only way you will feel satisfied is if you cheat and don't let her know. Then, psychologically, you'll feel you're both even.
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