So guys, do you have think there is anything wrong with your girlfriend having guy friends?

My bf of two years doesnt think that it is right for me to have any guy friends at all. He thinks that the idea of having a guy as a friend is like having that person on the back burner just in case our relationship fails.WTF how dumb is that???? Its not like i have tons of guy friends who i go out and party with and hang out with them without my boyfriend. I can honeslty say i have like 5 guy friends all of which i work with along with my bf. And again the only times i ever hang out with these guys are when we do group get togethers with people at work, where my bf is there with us. And yet when i talk to any of these guys at work, and gets pissed and makes rude comments like ';why dont you go hook up with joe'; When all i was doing was talking to them. Its just not fair. I dont flirt with these guys, and yet he yells at me and gets mad when i talk to them. But its okay for him to have friends that are girls. This one girl that we work talk and flirts with him all the time and it really bothers me. I tell him this and he says im just being paranoid and she is just his friend. Its just getting to the point in our relationship where i just dont know if i want to be with him anymore he is so controlling its scary. I love him more than anything, i just dont know how much longer i can deal with all of this. Not only does he tell me i cant have guy friends, but when i go out with my girlfriends (something i rarely do) he gets upset with me. I never hang out with my friends, im either working, at school or with him. These past couple weeks I've gotten together twice with some of my friends at someone's house. We got some drinks and movies and just hung out for the night. He got upset with me because i was drinking, thought that there were guys there and i was cheating on him, and called me white trash for drinking. Its just insane!!!





Well this turned into me venting instead of a question, so i just want to know what people think. I could really use some advice. If anybody wants to talk with me on AIM that would be awesome, i just could really use some outside advice besides friends about this. Here's my aim Stargirl1723. ThanksSo guys, do you have think there is anything wrong with your girlfriend having guy friends?
Ok, first you need to confront your boyfriend. You need to remind him that you have feeling for him. If you ';love him more than anything,'; you need to tell him that. Also tell him that he can't be the only person and that you still need to talk to other people too. The rest you need to work out on your own. This will help you be a better person. After you get through to him, give him a hug (or a kiss if your already in that stage ;P) Also the answers are sorta true depending on the person. He might not be worth it, just depending on wat you think of him or how long you've dated. Tell me if it works out!So guys, do you have think there is anything wrong with your girlfriend having guy friends?
He's got some issues to get over.





If he's got a problem with you hanging out with people then he's not worth having around. He'll cause more drama later down the line.





Talk with your friends and take their advice because they're looking out for you.
Yeah, but it looks fishy when you're in bed naked together
this guy is CONTROLING you. you need to stop datin gthis guy or things will elevate to the next level, violence. This is like the early warning signs. He is jealous and rude and hurtful and untrusting. This man is trouble, honey. Its only going to get worse if you dont break it off.