This is a question for gay/bi women. do you get extremely jealous when someone hits on your girlfriend?

I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. Im in my 40s and she's in her 50's. When we first started going together she was pretty thin (like a size 12,) and I was very heavy (like a size 22.) I went and has lap-band surgery and I've lost 91 lbs and I'm almost into a size 10, meanwhile she retired and has gained 50 lbs. She's still beautiful to me, and I try to help her any way I can. She's always been a little jealous, but now the jealously is off the chain. She flips out when another woman (or man for that matter,) gets flirty with me. I tell her all the time that she's the ONLY one in my life, and I never flirt back with these people. I wouldn't disrespect her that way, nor am I interested in the least in them.


Any suggestions on how to lessen this jealousy?This is a question for gay/bi women. do you get extremely jealous when someone hits on your girlfriend?
tell her how you feel. communication is always the best and besides she might feel insecure since you lost and she gained weight. she might see herself and not being beautiful enough for you. so just take time and tell her all the nice things you feel for her and how she really is the only one in your life and no matter what you do want to spend the rest of your life with her. i hope this goes on well and you both feel better about your selfs.This is a question for gay/bi women. do you get extremely jealous when someone hits on your girlfriend?
just tell her how you feel if she loves you like you say then she will understand
sorry...i just need your 2 points.


it's all good...


Thanks...
she just thinks that since you have lost weight that you don't want her anymore because she has gained weight instead of losing it but just sit her down and communicate with her ask her about what her problem is and discuss the situation that you are having and then compromise merry Christmas