What Girlfriend flirted with this guy & told me she would have flashed him if she wasn't with me. What do i do?

Did my girlfriend cross the line when she tried to put ice cubes down another guys pants?


A couple of nights ago we went to a party. My girlfriend got a little drunk and was a little flirty with some other guys. That didn't bother me at all really, but what did is that there was this one guy, she had just met, she was extra talkative to. A few minutes later, she tried to put an ice cube down the front of his underwear. I caught it from the corner of my eye, but I pretended not see it. Later on that night, when I was sitting next to her she was playfully trying to pull the hair off his forearms. I again just pretended not to notice. the pulling off hair thing i didn't mind, but indicated to me that she like him.





When we were walking back home she told me that if she wasn't dating me that she would have flashed him. I didn't say anything and just laughed like it was a joke. I'm not mad or anything but I feel that that was a little disrespectful towards me. How would you guys feel if your girlfriend did that? Conversely, ladies how would you feel if your guy did the same thing to another girl and say told you that he would flash her if he wasn't with you?





Should i say something to her or just blow it off? Am I looking too much into things, making a mountain out of a mole hill? If the roles were reversed i'm not sure how she would feel. We have been dating for a little over 4 months. I started to think that there are other parties that she goes to without me, which is completely fine, I don't own her or anything and I want her to hangout with her friends and enjoy life. I don't have to be around her every time. My policy is that i give the person i am with complete trust. She can hang out with whoever and wherever she wants, but I feel a little disrespected, especially when it was done right in front of me.





Thanks for all your help and advice. I didn't get her drunk. she probably had about three beers. I didn't encourage her to drink or anything. No hard liquor that I know of too. She is a lightweight. Some people have mentioned that i should talk to her about this? How should i got about this without sounding petty or way too negative





To make it a little clearer her hand never went down his trousers but she did try to drop the ice cube in there.What Girlfriend flirted with this guy %26amp; told me she would have flashed him if she wasn't with me. What do i do?
Be smart. You don't have to be with a permiscuos girl like that. I would also be very disturbed by that kind of behavior. If you want to do what is right for yourself I believe you should break up. Now she may try to cry or act like what you are saying is not true. But hey, you know the truth of what you saw. Deal with the facts. She flirts with others. Do you really want that kind of relationship? I'm 23 and i still have these same problems. Probably because I still have areas in my life to change. It would also be wise to look for girls in a place where you know what the probable motives. Say like church. Not all girls in church will be great, but atleast you know there will be some that are flying staright. Love you broWhat Girlfriend flirted with this guy %26amp; told me she would have flashed him if she wasn't with me. What do i do?
no being mean, but thats pretty ****** up.