How to talk to your girlfriend about problems you are having with her?

i love my girlfriend a lot and well the thing is she is in college and likes to party. well she tell me shes a player and she don't want to get tied down and thinks she never would. we been going out about 2 months.well she also tells me that she gets guys # and flirts with them like on aim n txt msg. well the thing is what should i do i really like her and i dont know how to ask or talk to her about itHow to talk to your girlfriend about problems you are having with her?
You will have to simply have her come with you and speak about the question of exclusiveness.





You have to show her that your intentions and feelings toward her are really sincere and that all you want is to make sure is that this is reciprocal. You will have to make a good point of making her understand that you do not want to tie her down, nor to limit her in any way. The point of your conversation is to show some COMMITMENT toward one another.





Once you have made this part clear, you can tell her that this whole thing is based on the fact that you are not totally comfortable having her flirting and playing like that with everyone around. Again, the idea is not to impose on her limits, it's to show her that you CARE about her and that you would like both of you to live well with all this stuff. She could perhaps slow it down a bit and spend some of those parties with you. I'm certain that if you remain calm and do not put the blame on her - if you wished to speak subjectively and make the whole thing relative to your person, it's the ideal time to do this. AVOID putting the blame on her, avoid pointing directly the error or the annoying thing. I know that anyone should accept and appreciate to learn, but she may just as well not even listen if you do go like that. So simply state your feelings regarding that, simply speak of how you feel and remain HUMBLE - you want to FIND the most suitable answer and not impose a vision.








If you do this, she'll understand and there's no way someone seeing how much effort you put into it will not try to change somethings.

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